We mourn the loss of our friend and Honorary Member of The Bridge Club, Aberdeen. Gibby died on 16 Sep 2021 aged 83 and leaves us with many fond memories of a quite exceptional person.
Gibby’s impact on Bridge in Aberdeen was felt in his playing the game, organising and strengthening the club and teaching both children and adults. In all of these, but especially in teaching, he was joined by his late wife Sally. Together they built up a cogent series of lessons and these materials are still in use today. They were a charming and formidable pairing, Sally a born teacher who explained and made complex things simple, while Gibby contributed a certain “have a go” mentality. He viewed risk-taking as an integral part of the game and felt that beginners should not be too timid. How often did we hear “no double, no trouble” as we were encouraged to sacrifice. These same qualities were apparent when they played together, and they complemented each other perfectly, playing very successfully and at a high level. They were widely respected at national as well as local level. Their joy in playing and in each other was easy to see and to appreciate. Their contribution to bridge in general but especially in education was recognised in the SBU President’s Award.
Both Gibby and Sally served on the committee of the bridge club and their drive and hard work made it a success, even as other clubs languished. They contributed in every way possible, whether wiping down tables or organising the bridge movement, arranging a party or balloted teams to draw players old and new together. Gibby served as President of the club on at least two occasions and he was President of North District and served on the SBU Council. Many of us had the pleasure of being introduced to other players at Aviemore and other congresses. Including us in their table or inviting us for a drink was a natural part of Gibby’s hospitable nature.
Gibby worked in agriculture and he set up Norvite, a successful animal-feed business. He organised a popular bridge competition with fiendish hands in January each year and this was sponsored by Norvite. He committed many hours to finding these hands and the participants had the benefit of an expert commentary to read and mull over when the competition was done.
Gibby was a proud Aberdonian and remained a committed supporter of “The Dons” all his life, whether they were doing well or badly. A home match was one of the few reasons for him to cry off a bridge night. He loved jazz and dancing and was a keen golfer. Bridge and golf were the basis of regular trips to Ireland and it seemed as if every activity was taken on with great joy and enthusiasm.
Gibby and Sally were committed to their family of four and travelled enthusiastically to Greece, Canada and the USA to see them. They were delighted when their youngest son, John, settled in Aberdeen. This gave many opportunities to be with their local grandchildren, including sharing their knowledge of bridge and music. Equally they took enormous pleasure in visiting the family abroad, attending weddings and other celebrations.
We say farewell to this remarkable friend and bridge enthusiast with fond memories and gratitude that we knew him.
